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IN
HONOR OF
Karen Ronning
"Keren LeKaren"
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August 8, 1971
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March 5, 2000
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Bedside
Letters
Journal
Entries from a Bedside Vigil
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During Karen's long months of hospitalization, her
friends made journal entries in a unique and spiritually touching memory book.
Check back as we continue to add excerpts and pictures from this loving book,
telling the story of the five-month vigil kept by friends and family at
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Some final thoughts 'till I get your ear again.
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Just remember Karen...not that I haven't reminded you in your ear enough these
weeks...
If
I were in your shoes, you would be standing, sitting, praying, singing,
dancing, teasing, practicing guitar and working on some craft project...
all at my bedside ... 24 hours a day!!! You'd be the most
persistent friend around. You should be thankful I am not as stubborn as
you!!
Sometimes
you look like you want to punch me in the face...but just know I love you
so much that I just can't give up on you. You mean too much to me.
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So,
I'll finish for now. I seem to be singing a song all the time
now...always thinking of you. Maybe that's God's grace to get me through
this. I'll end with the song we sang together on graduation day.
I
love you sweet Karen.
"And
Friends are friends forever.
If the Lord's the Lord of them. And a
friend will not say never, cause the welcome will not end. Though it's
hard to let you go. In the Father's Hands, we know that a lifetime's not
too long to live as Friends --M.W.
Smith
All
My Prayers,
Sharona

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December
23, 1999
Dearest
Karen,

How
beautiful to come into the sanctuary of your hospital room and spend
time with you and God. He is here. His peace is here.
I
wish you could have been with us this past Sabbath to hear your parents
share from their hearts with the congregation. How they comforted us
with their candid expressions of God's presence and power in their lives
through it all. Their honesty challenged us all. You would have been
proud.
Your
mother asked me to write the words of the chorus we sang at the close:
"Peace,
Peace, Wonderful Peace,
Coming down from the Father above.
Sweep over my spirit forever I pray
In fathomless billows of Love."
Sweet
Karen, your silent lips are a persistent reminder of God's still small
voice powerfully reminding us all "in quietness and confidence is
our strength".
We
love you,
Liz

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October
21, 1999
Dear Karen,
When I think of you I think of springtime in the Galil…beautiful flowers in the
open fields, laughing as we swim in the Kinneret, lazing around the campfire
and singing songs together.
When
I think of you, I’m reminded of sunshine and smiles, a compassionate heart, and
a creative and free spirit.
There is
so much I could learn from you…and I look forward to it. There is joy in
the journey as we make it in friendship together. Thanks for being so real and
for being you. You are truly a gift to us all.
I’m
praying for you and thinking of you always. Its such a privilege to know you and I’m
so glad you are still with us.
I
keep thinking of Ps. 139 for you and pray it over you. Rest and get well soon.
Know
you are very loved,
Nicole
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Dear Kay Kay,
Words can’t express what you mean to me. A part of you lives inside of my heart and
always will. I love the connection we have and I can’t wait till we can talk again, goon a crazy trip, laugh, dance in the rain, play in the mud, just enjoying
each other’s presence. I love you so much. I need you here. Karen, you are the
most special person I ever met. Anyway, get better. That is an order.
I love you,
Mike

P.S. By the way I’m really praying for you, yes me,
so that means something.
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Dear Karen,
Saturday Evening, 23 Oct ‘99
……God has given you the ability to love and care for everyone irrespective of who
they are………………
Love, Dorothy
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“Tell Karen our best regards from Africa. Tell her thatthere is a network of prayers by friends who love her so much, and this
network stretches throughout at least three continents – from America
to Finland-Sweden-Norway and the rest of Europe via Africa and to Israel!"
With
love from Anne Sophie, 
Moshi, Tanzania
October, 1999
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Karen,
….You are so special and God has given you so many gifts. I knew from the beginning of our friendship
that God had plans for you. That He had some special things for you to do. I
still believe that……
With all my love, Julie Foster
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Dear, dear Karen,
You are
a ray of sunshine! I have never known anyone as kind and sweet and considerate
as you. We’ve had so much fun together and much much more awaits us! I can
think of so many “remember when…” and I want to share them all with you. I am so
glad that we both know the same God and are His most precious children. God
takes care of us. He knows. I love you so much. I’m not so far away.
Lots of love, Pinky
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My dearest Karen,
…What an impact you have had on all of us. Your caring nature, your willingness to
lend an ear, to spend quality time with people is so appreciated. You are a one in
a million girl…..
Dalia
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Our beloved Karen,
….You are such a giving person. You always take time to give to others….
Love forever, Rickey and Sarah
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1
November 1999
Karen,
….You always were all heart. Your heart was always with God and those
hurting which makes this situation all the more ironic. Karen, we love you…..I want
you to know that you are one of the handful of people where I felt free enough
to let everything out. There is something in your eyes –- the window of the
soul. You have always been a free wind blowing through the trees. Nobody could
tie you down.
… Gary
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November
5, 1999
Dearest Karen,
Nicole and I are here – you are resting peacefully. Just playing some Geoff Bullock
music in the background to encourage your soul….

Karen, here’s your theme song
for this time in your life: Power of your love
Lord I come to you.
Let my heart be changed renewed
Flowing from the grace that I found in you.
Lord I’ve come to know the weakness I see in me
Will be stripped away
By the power of your love.
Chorus: Hold me close. Let you love
Surround me
Bring me near. Draw me to your side
And as I wait (Wake!) I will rise up like the eagle
And I will soar with you
Your spirit leads me on
In the power of your love
Lord unveil my eyes
Let me see you face to face
The knowledge of your love
As you live in me
Lord renew my mind
As your will unfolds in my life.
Been living everyday by the power of your love.
My prayer for you!
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Dear Karen
….an affinity to you seems natural. I bet that’s how most people feel you emanate
a feeling of warmth & caring to all that you’ve come across. That’s
your beauty. A quality so rare even among family or friends. Every day that
you’re here now we all feel this loss of missing the special spirit you gave to us.
The last 2 times we met was at my place after Narkiss Church and the famous square-dancing night where we both were partners.
There’s another evening of square-dancing being planned & I hope you’ll want to
be my partner again…
Love, Vera
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Trip to the Gilboa Mountains
….I just want to say ‘kol hakavod’ (“all honor” to you) for always trying to enjoy life in the midst of the struggles!
Nili
Love you!
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Dearest Karen, Nov.22, ‘99
…You are one of the few friends who can totally relate. I guess growing up together
has caused that connection between us. I’ve always appreciated your openness
and honesty… and how open and free I could be with you too. My earliest
childhood memories are spending time with you – playing in that sand box in front of
your house, collecting tad-poles at the secher [dam], helping the ants along their trail; and later at grade school –showing you the ropes. You had your pig-tails and were so sweet – I told you
to call me if anyone were to mess with you, and I’d take care of them!
Sharona
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December
12 , 1999
Dear Karen,
… I want to talk to you to continue to discuss with you the subject of how the strong
can help the weak. Last time you carried my basket from the bus to my house and
I invited you to come in. I cannot forget how impressed I was from your
words. Always smiling, always saluting the old…
Mazal Elboher
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Jan.6, 2000
Dear Karen,
We’re herewith your parents at a get together (for the 2nd time), and
once again I’m being so encouraged and cheered in everyone’s testimonies about
you and how you’ve touched so many lives. I want you to know that the more I
hear about you and your love for people the more I am inspired and grow
to appreciate you. I am so proud that you are my sister in the Lord. Your
real concern for what people are going through has been used by God to teach me
to start doing the same. You are going to be so astounded when you get up to
see how many people love, care and have been deeply touched by you.
Hugs
& kisses,
Shoshi
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Karen,
We love you, we need you. You are the heart of all our ties and friendships. Without you we would all be scattered.
Tova
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[Tova,
written by Karen, August 6, ’99, the night before Tova’s wedding - just two months before Karen’s tragedy on Oct. 5th]
Dear
Tova!
… Just wanted you to know I love you and always wish the best for you.
Psalm139: My wish you know this – God close always.
“ Where can I go from Your Spirit?
Where can I flee from your presence?
If I go to the heavens, You are there
If I make my bed in the depths, You are there.
If I rise on the wings of the dawn or
Settle on the far side of the sea
Even there Your right hand will guide me
Your hand will hold me close.”
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 “And
Friends are friends forever,
If the Lord’s the Lord of them.
And a friend will not say never,
Cause the welcome will not end.
Though it’s hard to let you go,
In the Father’s Hands we know
That a life time’s not too long,
To live as Friends.”-- M.W.Smith
All
my prayers,
Sharona K.
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